Apa yang ingin kau tuntut dari sebuah sakit hati? Ada banyak manusia di muka bumi ini, dan tak semua harus dipaksa untuk mengerti hatimu seorang. Yang kau harus tahu, semua orang pernah terluka bahkan jika terlalu sakit sekalipun, ada saja dari mereka yang tegar menahan untuk membawanya sendiri hingga rasa sakit itu tak terasa lagi. Hilang. Di luar sana ada yang lebih tersakiti daripada dirimu. Jadi, jangan cengeng untuk meminta kata maaf dari mereka yang melukai.
Sometimes, you have to apologize no matter who was wrong. They who had hurting you, must have pain inside of them. You don`t need to give them bad pay. Hei, who are you? Even you are the true person, if you give them bad pay, so what`s the difference? Wish them happy. Itulah dirimu yang tercipta sebagai manusia yang memiliki hati.
It is hard to start, but if you want to know, I always do it. I rarely say sorry straight away, but I try to accept everything hurts me, if I can`t accept it in one minute, I`ll try it in one day. If it does not work, I`ll try it in everyday I live.
See, no matter who was wrong, you have to be kind to say or do anything hard for you to be better, and for them to be happy. I can say about it, because I face it very much. I never want to beg somebody to say sorry, I just gotta act like I don`t care. If it feels fine, it is done.
As simple as that to mend your heart. It just takes time and takes your feelings. Finally, you can let it go. I was scared and hurting, but now I know how to be pretty heart-controller, how to build beautiful mind to heal my heart. I love the way I am, even they speak anything bad behind my back, I can accept it for introspection. Then forgive them for the better me. For whoever you are, thank you for bringing me to be strong by your attitude to me. I hope you will find your happiness.
Adakalanya cara terbaik adalah membiarkan hatimu tersiksa sendiri daripada kau terlalu menuntut ucapan maaf dari orang. Ingatlah, tidak semua orang bisa berkata `maaf`, tidak semua orang seperti dirimu. Jika kau masih terlalu berkutat pada hal ini, lihat lagi di luar sana ada banyak hati yang dibiarkan sembuh sendiri tanpa peduli lagi siapa yang telah membuat luka.
Memaafkan itu berat... But oke,i'll try..
BalasHapus